Trials and tribulations

My issue is I fell head over heels in love w somebody that didn’t love me.i gambled everything and it was and continues to be a loss.I spent 8 yrs trying to make it make sense.how can I feel so deeply for someone who never returned the love.I’ve been busy trying to rebuild but he’s on my lease in the apt he can’t pay for .I would be so happy to hear some advice.if you have stopped by to aggravate me w stupid don’t bother .yes I would appreciate advice and stories similar and hopefully stories of moving on!thank you

Can someone please teach me how to message lol idk how to talk to anyone

I would recommend cutting ties with this particular individual. The relationship is obviously going nowhere. As for messaging, I'm not sure you actually can message on this site.