The chat room trap

My wife has been chatting for about a year I think. She is 55 and although fairly prim and proper in public has a naughtyish side when she gets to know people. Chat rooms appear to have allowed her darker side full reign. I found her half dressed and with one of her toys on the desk with a much younger man on screen who was naked from the waist up. I said nothing and left the room only to hear her giggling saying 'Its ok he has gone again'. I listened deliberately and heard the buzzing of her toy plus moans from her and chat which you would expect between long time lovers. I have no idea if she is seeing him, or anyone else for real. I work away 2-3 days a week so who knows.

Are you looking for advice? Or just a place to vent?

No I do not need advice. Just a warning about the dangers of chatrooms I suppose.

Ha-ha! That was funny! "Are you looking for advice? Or just a place to vent?" Excellent question, AKA - Gold Star! "No I do not need advice. Just a warning about the dangers of chatrooms I suppose." ;-D Yeah, we know. It's kinda what we deal with on a daily basis. LOL But equally - thanks, that was very considerate of you. :-) A place to warn. Love it! Got any more, Peter526Kent?

Start a List of Dodgy Personality Symptoms and The Tools Used To Express Them! Others could add their own repeat-witnessings. And you'd have something to take your mind off your woes, here and there. But, deadly-seriously, I wouldn't decline AKA's offer of support, if I were you, because you might find a need further down the line - or once you come out shock - when you'll appreciate a safe, supportive place and supporter. ?

The even funnier thing is the number of clowns with nothing to say except meaningless garbage like you two. Thank God these forums are not an important part of my life so not staying is no problem

Thanks for proving it had merely been a made-up story while you were waiting for your Xbox to reboot, and that you didn't want to deal with the responses you generated because you didn't know how. Same as you didn't know that no sane man just backs out of the room, like that, saying nothing, on coming across that kind of scenario, as if it was no biggie. Best not tell your mum about this. Somehow, I don't think she'd be very proud. Including the fact you're watching online porn.

"The even funnier thing is the number of clowns with nothing to say except meaningless garbage like you two. Thank God these forums are not an important part of my life so not staying is no problem." I was actually genuinely curious what your objective was. The way it was written, I was not sure what you were looking for. Sorry, you took it so poorly.

I'm not. He shouldn't be abusing what is an important lifeline for people who genuinely could benefit from our, this case - your, precious time and effort. Then again, he's too young to know any better. You're more polite than I, Gunga-Din. :-)

Well, anyway, no matter - I was still impressed with your opening response.