Seperated but confused

please help. I am seperated from my wife for 3 years and she has a partner. our daughter is terminally Ill and we have been spending a lot of time together. I keep catching her looking at me and she always texts me at bedtime. What is going on?

Maybe she is having doubts about the separation. Not liking the results of her choices. Personal opinion. Don't go back. If it took her 3 years to come around and she found someone else in that time, you are not and never will be a priority. Stick around for your daughters sake, then finalize the divorce.

Maybe she's being supportive considering what you're going through. No matter what, your daughter is a bond between you 2 and makes sense that she tries to give you support during this difficult time.