It frustrates me that most other women probably meet men in public

or at work that are interested in them but I never do. It frustrates me that it could be my looks because of this.

Can you go into a lot more detail, please, TheColorPink? And meanwhile consider whether the fact you're not getting approached could possibly have anything to do with the fact you are down on yourself and your looks? I.e. it's your vibe? You might well be getting checked-out, though, and just not noticing because you're feeling self-conscious thus directing your awareness overly to yourself, therefore, not spotting them looking at you?