Please help me get over this emotionally painful relationship / friendship

We started out as a very happy couple he gave me everything I wanted but then he slowly took away my needs in the relationship example he took away us going on dates,he took away time alone together and he stopped kissing me.I asked him why he said he didn't like those kind of things no more but stay with him.Then he was an hour late meeting up and I was waiting for him in the cold and rain.Then when he turned up he acted like I did not exist I got fed up so I shouted at him.I said sorry to him then he said it was ok. Then he meet up with me and refused to hold my hand he said everything was my fault it was in front of his friends.He could not forigve me for shouting at him he ignored me for 4 weeks then he came back telling me how bad he felt and was being really nice to me and said he wanted to kiss me,sleep with me and that he regreted how bad he treated me.So like an idot I thought things where going to get better.Then out of the blue he said I do not want to be with you kiss you or sleep with you that will a worthless thing to do. I called him a liar then he igorned me for 3 weeks and then came back saying how sorry he was and how he would never do it again I belived him again becuase he promised me that he wouldnt do it again.I met up with him and his freinds and he was acting like where a couple then when we got alone together he said we are just freinds but we could do couple things and he told me that his heart didnt belong to anyone else.Then he choose not to see me for 7 weeks I could not cope with the pain.When I did meet up with him after 7 weeks.He said no kissing or holding hands where freinds thats the first thing he said and he said theirs better looking women out their for him.I accepted it and then he layed on me.He said lets go somonewhere private then he took his top off in the cold weather.Then he said you could stroke my chest like an idot I did it because I wanted to block out the pain he cause the best way I can and I know I was stupid.Then he walked me to my bus stop and said if I get a girlfreind you will be jealous and heartbroken.Then when the bus came he stared at me in an evil way.Then we did have the same group of friends and he excluded me from the group of his friends and gave me the evil smile again.He got his friends to watch what I was doing while he was not seeing me for ages and the silent treatment.I go to the same college as him and he excludes me from his freinds group in front of my face and I see that everytime I go college do you think he could be a naricsst sadist or a socipath or just selfish is it my fault.

In the long term you will be better off without him. He is trying to control you in the way he saids his words. In the long term you have to be stronger. But when he see you start to move on with your life and have a new circle of friends he think twice. As to what he could of had and lost. But in the long term you are worth more than him so therefore do not let him put you down. In the future someone else will cross your path and will treat you better. But you in the short term have to feel more positive in the morning and Mr Right will find you also you needs to find other interest that you like not what he like etc.. Take care now