Suspicious on my wife, Now I am shocked

have been suspicious of wife recently and tried to find out what was going on. She speaks on phone, texting and mor than usual business meetings. I did follow her few times and could not find anything. I travel for work couple of times a months and tried to set a camera to record something. For around 8-9 months, i did not find anything unusual in the records and I was a bit relieved. Till recently, whey I just checked the records randomly, and I got shocked by the photos as she has been cheating. I am really shocked, distracted and lost all my focus. I cannot spend time on my work or my children. Even I lost weights due to struggle with my daily eating. My sleep is also terrible and going through lots of nightmares. I would like to talk about this with her and do not know how to prove it. I fear about telling her about camera as I am scared of her reaction or possible violence. We have little children at house and het anger always scare children. I am looking for a peaceful conversation or resolution. I cannot continue like this. Any idea please?

Hi and welcome, JCDAME45! Apologies for the delay. I or someone else will be with you asap. Please meanwhile feel free to respond on other posters' threads, including those likewise still waiting (and I'm posting this same message to them)? That's how it works here - a free-for-all come tit-for-tat. :) If you feel nervous about doing that, you might find it helps enormously to read other present and past, established threads - and, ditto, where concerns finding a problem similar to your own. :)

Oh for goodness' sake - sorry, DAVEAMEC - I'm posting this to your waiting posters-in-kind and forgot to paste your name over another's. Haha, sorry! (Enjoy your 5 seconds 'as a woman', haha!).

Oh crappety-crap and round objects! - profuse apologies - you dropped off my radar! You still there? I'll put you first in the queue tomorrow, regardless. SORRY, Dave :( Will make it up to you.