No closure in a relationship

My ex kept ignoring me when I asked him for closure.

Did you abandon thread? If not - our visitors and regulars are going to need an awful lot more information than that, please.

You're not really seeking "closure". That guy probably did you dirty. Maybe you want him back, maybe you want revenge. He left you, didn't even have the courtesy or respect to tell you why. That's all the "closure" you need. He dropped you just like that because you clearly don't matter much to him. When somebody breaks up with you, it's like they died but they didn't. That can be really painful. Honestly, breakups aren't even supposed to happen. You're supposed to fall in love once and stay with that person forever, deal with each other's flaws, start a family, etc that's why "marriage" became a concept. But most people don't really do that anymore.. So I guess.. just think to yourself. Do you want him back or do you want revenge? And how do you want to execute that? Yolo, do what feels right for you Orrr let the feeling pass and move on. Which is going to happen anyways. Also as a female, that saying "they always come back" usually rings true. You might THINK he wants nothing to do with you, but he probably will crawl back to you in like 6-12 months. Would it be smart to take him back at that point? Probably not. But they do come back.

You're not really seeking "closure". That guy probably did you dirty. Maybe you want him back, maybe you want revenge. He left you, didn't even have the courtesy or respect to tell you why. That's all the "closure" you need. He dropped you just like that because you clearly don't matter much to him. When somebody breaks up with you, it's like they died but they didn't. That can be really painful. Honestly, breakups aren't even supposed to happen. You're supposed to fall in love once and stay with that person forever, deal with each other's flaws, start a family, etc that's why "marriage" became a concept. But most people don't really do that anymore.. So I guess.. just think to yourself. Do you want him back or do you want revenge? And how do you want to execute that? Yolo, do what feels right for you Orrr let the feeling pass and move on. Which is going to happen anyways. Also as a female, that saying "they always come back" usually rings true. You might THINK he wants nothing to do with you, but he probably will crawl back to you in like 6-12 months. Would it be smart to take him back at that point? Probably not. But they do come back.

Gladzpat, I'd like to edit my first post: We will *not be needing more information as Nav has told it like it is, via expolation from 'what sort of person would do such a hurtful thing?'. The ones that crawl back are either too young and immature to know HOW to end it, find it so beyond them it almost terrifies them, and, after having rung the doorbell - just run away. Or they're particularly selfish and self-centred. Or full-blown NPD.^ PS Nav: Schmokiiiiinnnnn! :)