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Boyfriend doesnt care about my feelings

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So my boyfriend and i were not arguing he was outside doing yard work, but grabbed his phone when he went outside and left me inside to do whatever. I became hurt and irritated so i stormed off. Its been 8hrs and he asnt even called to see if im ok. Should i call him first, een though i would sound like a broken record?

Boyfriend doesnt care about my feelings

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Hi, sorry for the lack of respondents at the mo. Please continue being patient and I or anyone else here will respond just as soon as humanly possible (- perhaps even those waiting in the queue, themselves - cough-cough-hint-hint! :D)

Boyfriend doesnt care about my feelings

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Oh dear, I thought someone else would have taken this and your two co-queuers by now. Right, let me waste no time and dive straight in... "So my boyfriend and i were not arguing he was outside doing yard work, but grabbed his phone when he went outside and left me inside to do whatever. I became hurt and irritated so i stormed off. Its been 8hrs and he asnt even called to see if im ok. Should i call him first, een though i would sound like a broken record?" Questions: 1. Are you saying that when you ARE arguing, his response normally involves grabbing his phone and going out-of-earshot?...but that this time, he did it despite there was 'harmony'? 2. Did you ask him why he'd decided (obviously without-warning) to go do the yardwork instead of spending time with you? 3. Had it been taken-for-granted that he'd be spending 'quality time' with you that day - and had he let you think so until - Bam! - he abandoned you to the garden and whomever he wanted to call/receive? 4. Did you hear it ring? Hear him talking on it? Did you EAVESDROP, is what I'm asking. (I bloody would have. If they're acting iffy and contra Situation Normal, they're gonna get private-detective-ed. :p) 5. You stormed off. So you were at HIS house? In that case - YOU DID THE RIGHT THING BY LEAVING (sticky Gold Star on your forehead - thlup!). 6. And (I'm betting/identifying) he knew it which is PRECISELY WHY....he upped the ante....punished you for sticking-up for yourself - right? 7. No. And as I'm late, I'm hoping you didn't. Because by the fact of his crime - you're now (or were?) in Stand-off. (Well, isn't HE nice...not....any longer. Am I correct? And you suspect another woman - correct? Might all be bluff but the point is - his having made it too obvious...having ensured you'd feel JARRED in order to grab your attention so that you couldn't/wouldn't fail to notice. What an Old Chestnut, and what a git.) 8. Whenever you argue and he (or you) storms off - is it he who's started the argument?....seemingly out of nothing?....or done something else to make YOU have to "start"? Roger - Over? PS: Well-known Meme: Behind a nagging woman, there is a man not doing what he is supposed to! Damn right.

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