Cheating recovery

I've was with my live-in boyfriend for 3 yrs. when I found out that he had recently cheated on me ( about a month ago). I was DEVASTATED!!!,But I am still here..its a complicated situation. I am trying to find a way to get past it,But its extremely hard for me. Any suggestions, Is it even possible...Please HELP!!!

hello..:) first of all you need to gt rid of all his belongings and the things that remind you of him. any photographs,gifts etc, every thing, just flush it,along with his memories. if you haven't yet told him that how bad you felt, i would suggest just call him and tell him how pathetic he is.trust me, release of that anger is very important. then just think-why should you waste even a tear on a guy who didnt think twice before cheating on you?is he even worth those tears? look around, there are so many guys as good, or even better, you just need to open your eyes and give them a chance. there is no shortage of good guys. besides, you are a wonderful person who deserve s the best of every thing.if you didnt get him, the best is yet to come. dont drown the possibility to meet your true love by hanging on to this guy. wipe your tears so that you can clearly see the real man of your dreams. you should keep your self busy, work, exercise, spend time with friends and family,indulge in some hobby like music or art. te more you are engaged in some work, the less you think of him and remember, god's plans for you are way better than the plans you make for yourself. have faith.believe that you can have a better man, who will love you with all his heart. wish you luck and love..:):)