Dealing with possesive bf

m 22yr old girlm dating a guy since two years in d startin i found him very open minded dis possesiv bf was fine wid it till six seven mnths as he wasnt serious about me n at d same tym he was datin another girl without lettin me knw aftr dat he becam serious for me n left dat girl n after dat the thngs started changin slowly as at first he took my fb paswrd had chat wid my male frnz den started abusing dem n told me to dlt some i was ok wid it thot dat he loves me so he is ltl passeiv bt afterwrd thng started gettin worst he wrote on my fb wall dat i left him n want a guy plz contact me n gav my nmbr den i stopd talkin to him bt den he cried a lot said sry i dlted my fb stopd talk to everymale frnz n if even i talk wid one by chance started lying to him Today d case is he abuse me alot sometym becouse of my lie sometime jus lyk dat n cant even talk to my cousin as he dnt lik it n i dnt knw i should continue or not i knw he loves me so much bt my life has became as hell i jus spend holeday at home no frnz nth

hi..:) i am sorry to say, but i don't think he loves you. i can understand guys getting a bit jealous when they see you talking to other guys, but this is just too much..its so bad that he abuses you and takes out his frustration at you for small or no issues. you have to be clear of what you want-is this relationship suffocating you? if yes, then move out.look around, hundreds of guys who are way better, who will love you more, and treat you nicely. can you live with a guy like this who treats you like a punching bag where he gets out all his frustrations? can you live like this,away from your friends and all that fun you might have with them? and a guy who even cheated you once?? its completely your choice.. i hope you will make a wise decision for yourself.. i wish you all the happiness tat you deserve..:)