Advice

my girlfriend has gone to uni shes about 4 hours away from me. i cant drive yet but i am in the middle of taking lessons. we speak every. day but now and then i get a little paranoid because she's going the same uni as her ex who she still talks to and she usually tells me everything. and when i found out her ex was going the same uni she seemed shocked and said how do you know that. then she said to trust her that nothings gonna happen. and i do trust her but i get a little paranoid every now and then. and all i need advice on how to keep the relationship going like how to keep it passionate and love like when we were with each other because its hard with texts and on the phone. shes in uni for 3 years but comes home every holiday so i get to see her so any advice on how to keep it going and stuff would be great =]

Just have faith in her and in the relationship if you really want to make it work. If you start to get insecure, then your words will start to sound that way, and ultimately it will flood the relationship with bad vibes. Keep optimism and build up anything with her during the free time you do have with her. You both will try your best to make it work if it really mattered to you both. If something happens (like you or her cheating), well, you can always talk it out with her and see what you both can do about it to make it work (or not).