Partner

Hi I have been going out with a guy for nearly 10 years. We do not live together and I only usually see him once a week as he does shift work but we speak on the phone each day. I don't think I love him any more. I have tried to bring a bit of sparkle into our relationship but he does not seem to listen to me. I would like him to arrange a date or be a bit romantic, take me dancing etc. but he won't do anything - he seems so apathetic. It has been years since he has taken me out to dinner. I keep hinting about a weekend away but he does not take the hint. He would come if I arranged it and paid for it but I am tired of doing it. I would like him to take the initiative and he wont so I think I want out. We always go to the same place each week and he does not want to go anywhere different. I think I am bored.