In love with best mate

Hi there im 25 yr old male and iv been friends with with a girl 4 6 yrs now and im fallen in love with her she is great but she just wants to be friends and i cant handle it i really dont want to lose her but im making my self ill over it any advice would help plz

well dude ive bin in that position before and in alot worse now but don't push her coz she'll end up dislikin u da best idea is leave it b and maybe she'll find she likes u da same way mate hope tht helps in some way rob

Hi there. I have been in a situation like that, my best friend started to act funny around me and started really makin me feel uncomfy, he then said his feelings. i told him i wanted to jus b friends but he wouldnt listen n kept goin on, he also made himself ill. I love him as a mate more than anything but had to cut myself away frm him, i miss his friendship more than anything. Rob is right, leave it alone coz u could she could end up hating u n then u will lose her friendship. Try putting your feelings aside, go out n try n find another girl. I understand its hard. Stupid feelings!!! best of luck. Keep us posted. x

Thankyou for your advice i havent seen her in a month now and i miss her more then ever and as for finding another girl i know i should but if im honest im not interested in anyone else but her i really dont know what to do i feel really down all the while and i cant pick myself up