I need encouragement concerning my being "stuck" in a very difficult relationship

I have been married for 3 yrs and we have broken up 4x's now. The last time I trusted him to come to NYC to live where he has a friend he is currently working for. The end of Nov. I will be here for 1 year and the deal was if it didn't work out he'd help me move to where ever I wanted and help me get back on my feet. Well, we had decided to move to WI (where I am from) because he doesn't like the job he is doing. This is normal pattern for him. I was doing Medical Billing and Coding courses and he made me stop those. He has control of the monies, I have no close friends here. My family cannot help me monetarily and I am very lonely. I have been looking for a job but at the same time, I don't have a background where I can make decent money and do not have my car here in NYC and I live in the Bronx and everything is a mess. I have a strong faith in God but to be honest my feelings are very down and it's hard.

so what you are asking for ? be specific.. what kind of advice do you want ?