Is it flirting or just friendly

There's this woman at work that i get on really well with, and we have a good laugh, make fun of each other, and on occassion had play fights, now she's not like this with any other male colleague, apart from the joking, and several times while play fighting she's gone to grab my dick. Now i know this seems childish but it helps us get through the day, only i'm not sure if it's friendly or flirty. We're both married so i guess i shouldn't be thinking about it, but i can't help it, I kinda wish i knew if only so i can move on, or deal with it....

Hello. Office romances are very exciting ... However ... I am not sure what you want to know. Does it matter if she's being friendly or just flirting? You're both married! The real question here is what do you want out of this relationship? Are you looking for more? You are both grown people and I am not one to judge, just decide if this friendship is worth it. For every action is a reaction. Also, from a legal point of view, be weary of sexual harassment allegations. In this economy it certainly is not worth losing your job over ;) good luck and take care.