How much should I expect

I have been dating this girl for about 9 months and am in love with her. weve discussed marriage and have decided that it is not the time. However I support her financially. because of my circumstances i had to move about 6 hours away from her and we have been seeing each other less often than im comfortable with. I work basicly 7 days a week which im used to however with supporting her i am not able to enjoy my life the same way im used to. I am in a relationship that it seem like i give everything and get very little in return. My question is this: with her going to school full time I know that i cant expect her to give much but how much can i expect because sometimes it feels like she is the only one who benifets at all.

well, i know exactly how you feel Slater there is nothing worst than to fill like you giving you all and getting barely nothing in return. You should sit down with her and tell her EXACTLY how you feel. Because your just as busy as she is and you still find time for her. So, you should sit her down and just ask if their some ways that she could but a little more effort into the relationship. You should expect at least something in return it doesn't even have to be something huge for her to take the time out her busy schedule to show u how much she appreciates everything you do for her. The smallest things mean the most. So, id say the next time you see her sit down have this conversation face-to-face so their no misunderstanding and so you can see exactly how she feels about what your asking of her. I don't know exactly what you would like her to do to show you that your not only one who's going put all the effort into it.But, we often get to comfortable and forget we may have someone loving us and supporting us but we need to show that back in return not to just expect things and assume that the other partner is just going know that we are thankful. Because just as your doing all you should be doing still and working everyday she should be able to do the same thing just to make sure your getting something in return that your not only one benefiting her(= I hope this helps you and i wish you luck(=

*feel...sorry for any other spelling errors