Made a terrible mistake
ALAYNA20121112 - Dec 3 2012 at 03:27
Before you are so quick to judge me please read the whole story. Me and my sister have been best friends for our entire lives. The other night I stayed the night at her house and we got drunk. I usually don't do this sort of thing, because it leads to poor judgement. I have only been drunk once or twice before that so I was pretty wasted. Anyways, my sister passed out and about an hour later her husband came on to me. He and I are very close, and I didn't deny his advances. We ended up sleeping together, and know that I am sober I am deeply ashamed, so much so that I am sick to my stomach. Am I going to hell? What should I do? it was such a stupid mistake I'd do anything to take it back.
whew...tricky. No judging here.....Hell I've got the same sisterly thing too-lifetime friends.....Right or wrong I would hope the husband doesn't say a thing. My trust in her husband would have been lost & I would quietly watch him to see if he is remorseful or whether he's had affairs before. If he has and eventually gets caught & throws your name into the mix I would LIE....afterall I have a lifetime commitment to my sister and she trusts me. If he keeps his mouth shut I will SLOWLY (so no-one suspects), withdraw from them (maybe get a boyfriend), that's a good enough excuse....I would NOT get drunk with them again,,,,cause I might confess.
Deceitful yes...but I'd rather do that then risk losing my sister and other family members. I would wait to be caught out before confessing
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That is horrible!! I cannot believe two people could do this to someone they "love"! He is an asshole and you are a whore. I hope she finds out and i hope her and your whole family turn against you.
Drunk or not-that is absolutely no excuse. People still have a brain when drunk and we have the ability to realize "no this is wrong"