Taj

hello, i like this guy that works in the same bulding as i work he has girlfriend with a baby this girl friend lives in N.C we live in miami we became friends and there is a understanding i like him he likes me. we had a converstion about being together but taking things slow he told me if he didnt have a girl he would love to date me but he is not the tyoe to play games so we have to stay friends i was okay with that until this weekend we had sex we also had another converstion about his girl i asked him do you want to be with her forever he said he wants to but its hard because she hurt him one and she is far away. i dont know what to do

It sounds like you need to find someone who doesn't play games. You need to be with someone who is not afraid to show that he likes you. If he has a kid and a girlfriend while he is sneaking around with you, who's to say that he isnt also sneaking around with other girls too?! Find a real man not a boy! You deserve better!

okay now dis is Confusing! if he has somebody and loves her,& is just missing her & again trying to get on with u..there are high chances that he will stay with his former girl only.It can b like he is just feeling lonely & missing his GF n gettin weak so takin ur emotional support else he is jus a Pro player! Whichver might be my suggestion would b to forget this & move on!Cause Forgetting is way better than getting cheated or getting a Heartbreak! hope u got it! Do luck!

If he has a girl and a baby he loves, you should leave him alone. He might willing to be a cheater with you or someone else, but you shouldn't involve yourself with his immature drama. Either way you probably don't have a real future with him yourself. Sounds like a sex thing to me. Could all be a story to just get in your pants. Be careful, he's already willing to break the heart of his baby's mother.