Confused???

Ok so I was dating this one girl and what ended up happening is she tells me she really wants to be my girlfriend but she cant and thats because my ex is a close family friend of hers. I told her I understand and that is fine, so she asks me can me and her just be friends. I'm like really???!!! I'm sorry I already had sex with this girl and it'd just be weird if we hung out just as friends. I chose to not keep contact with her but she texts me every now and again to see how i'm doing, or to see what i'm up to etc. I'm confused because it's as if she wants to be with me but my ex is preventing her from doing it which makes no sense to me. Should I continue to be a friend with her or just let our friendship go?? And what do these signs mean???

I think it's a little naive to believe in signs. It's fun and mysterious but the reality is what you make it. If u and this girl truly like each other maybe you guys should just confront the ex. If the ex is as close as you say she should understand even if she may seem a little cold at first. She will eventually get over it. Question is what do you want to happen? I always try to just go with my gut even if my head says different. Seems whenever I don't go with my gut is when I get the short end of the stick.

he clearly likes you but her conscience is getting the best of her and she's trying to be a good and loyal friend. I agree with DILUSIONEDDAME36 100%. If you both truly want to give the relationship a go, then you should go ask the ex for her blessings before moving forward. And just because you had sex with her....really, give her some slack. Were human and I'm sure that amplified her guilt. She clearly values and respects her friendship so help and get the blessing and see where it takes you two.