Heartbroken

Hi everyone this is a long story so will start with basics been with hubby for 7 years married 6 months when we were dirt together I found him sending sex texts to his ex we had it out and move on fast forward to a year ago I found out he was messaging a girl to meet up for sex he promised he never went through with it and I believed him as I had done something similar years ago anyway after this he meets a girl up town and stores her number she txt him one night saying something like so your done with me now and ignoring me I rang her she and my hubby said nothing went on he said they had texted about kids (she knew about my kids and stuff) that was all he deleted her number but I found out she had tired him again and he saved the num again I k ow cos she txt on my honeymoon!! He says he don't know y he saved it again and now I'm in total shock I am heartbroken it makes me question how many more did he sleep with them am I that boring?? He really wants our marrige to work as do I but I am stuck in this place of hurt and anger we tried to move on he wants us to be more loving and swears nothing has happens since last jan and his marrige is important to him but I can't move forward and I'm getting more and more mad... I know I will never know the truth and that kills me I also want to get over this and start again as newly weds but can't move on :(

It sounds like my situation in some ways. I didn't get caught though and there are no kids. Why isn't he letting go of other relationships? Has he ever been single for long? Have you? Unless your relationship is bulletproof, it is a matter of time and opportunity before he cheats again. How to be bulletproof? Total honesty and revelation of who you are to each other. After honesty comes the decision if you want to be with the true person.