Does he really love me?

Me and my boyfriend have had a rough 3 months together - but we've decided to have a fresh start - a clean slate. Except it's not really getting any better, and I'm starting to worry he's cheating on me. Tonight we were meant to be meeting up to have a special night together, something we have kind of planned for a while now. All day i've been SUPER excited except we hadnt arranged any times as he was meant to message me before it got dark as to when we were going to meet up. After 3 hours of nothing and the light getting darker and darker outside I asked him when we were meeting. He finally messages me and tells me he has a headache and that he doesn't feel like doing anything tonight, I got VERY upset at the fact I had waited all day to see him and he suddenly tells me it's not happening. He got annoyed at the fact I was upset and told me to leave him alone - he is still pissed off with me. He's done this a lot in the past week or so - we are meant to be meeting up but he then suddenly out of the blue messages me and tells me it either doesnt feel right or hes ill. Now he may be - but its happened so many times i'm starting to ask the question if he really loves me. I really love him - but everytime he cancels on me or has hours and hours of no contact I get worried hes with another girl. How do I stop this worrying? And how do I show him I hate the fact he upsets me by cancelling last minute?

He may not be cheating but he definately has something else that has his attention. Try as hard as you can to have him make the first contact. Say for instance this last time when it started getting dark just don't call him let him contact you and if he doesn't you will know he is not interested. There are too many fish in the sea to waste your time chasing someone who is not intersted. Believe me if a man is intersted he WILL make a way to see you headache or not. It;s painful to face but face it and move on

If I might add, try also to be in peace with yourself, moving on is a process indeed but trust me when I say if you become a smiling person everything is possible. If you think about it is so simple, you`re wonderfull and if the other person doesn`t see that well it`s his lost and not yours. Smile, shine and be happy MISSLADY, you deserve it.

Its understandable that you feel this way because for him to do that so often neans that there is obviously more to it then the rubbish excuses that he keeps giving you. So you definitly need to talk to him about it and if he still doesn't change after that then you should finish because its unlikely that he would chsnhe and you would just keep going around in circles leading you to be unhappy. Hope this helps.