Nasty, nosy old neighbors spend all time criticising my acts and words

These people have no interests, plans, activities or fun. Listening to and criticising me from next door uses up all their time and energy, day and night. Their age 80. The man is the most negative and exaggerates any error or any items he can find to belittle me. Examples: 'she drops a lot','she didn't think of that', 'she drinks alcohol all day', 'she was cheating benefits; that is how she got her car', various negative remarks re what I'm wearing. He speaks these items loud enough for me to hear--all else he says is in lower tone, so I cannot hear. Has had Practice? They deny this behavior and are silent when any one else could know evil behavior. Any suggestions, insight will be appreciated forever. Thank you

They sound like pretty miserable people to spend their time trying to put you down and spiteful aswel. And this is a form of harassment a sneaky type of harassment but harassment never the less and you shouldn't accept it. What you need to do is go to the police eventually but first you need to log down every incident what is said, the time and the date and who

Said it. Don't let them off due to their they are obviously horrible people so their age doesn't matter. So when you have put down when they harass you give it to the police and they are likely to take it seriously because it is harassment and its not like they are complaining about you having your music to loud or something that is affecting them or their house. These are personal remarks to put you down. Hope this helps.

This note is addressed to Laurenxxx. My many Thanks to you for your support re this matter. Your statement labeling their behavior as harrassment has helped me put this is better perspective. In fact, I have just learned this HOA will soon have new professional Mgt Co, in lieu of neighbors in 'charge'. I believe this will be another mental factor that is positive for me with this challenge of pride and identity.

I find this help was temporary--todoy I heard: 'she's taking the lunch bag', 'using rubbing alcohol for something' 'she looked in cabinet' looks like she knows something ,when going to car, 'shes getting a pen', she poured 2 drinks' 'she moved to a new shelf' she tried looking out blinds, now opening front door to see. My thought now is to approach the relatives who visit him, since I don't think police business or interest. I have been listening to similar harrassment for 1 1/2 years here. Please see if anyone has a suggestion. thank you very much!

Dear MISS E, I read your problem. I do understand what you must be going through as you have to hear these things for no fault of yours. It seems to me their children are far away. Perhaps they dont even visit them. And it is very obvious they dont have anything else to do. So watching and commenting about you is their only passtime. Perhaps they long for attention and love. Perhaps they are venting out the anger they have for their children's negligence towards them on you. Old people do tend to be erratic. Before you do anything else visit them once..take something along with you..something like flowers or a cake..say you got it for them on your way back home. I know this could be difficult for you. But do try it..May God bless you and help you..:)

Frankly, after your last response, you sound like you're hallucinating.