Should I leave him or stay?

I don't normally leave my problems on here but I'd really appreciate advice or even your opinions. I have an amazing boyfriend his great and u know fr a fact that he truly loves me. The problem is though we work together as chefs in the same restraunt and his my supervisor. The restraunt dosnt care that we are dating but the problem is, we fight a lot because of the stress and tension in the work place. His really sweet and caring and he loves me, but my love for him is fading, he gets rough sometimes and whenever his mates are around he turns all manly and tough, sometimes he scares me. But whenever he knows his done something that's upset me he apologizes sincerely and tries to do better. I don't want to stay with him when I don't love him. Sometimes I think it was just an infatuation on my part and true love for him. Everytime I bring up breaking up he gets really upset and it hurts so much because I like him very much and I don't want to loose him but I just don't think I'm a suitable girlfriend for him. His even talking about marriage! When we have only been dating 6months . How do I get out of this mess without hurtin him?

I doubt that you can get out of the relationship without hurting him if he is so serious that he's talking of marriage, but it sounds as if ending it will be for the best. Unfortunately, bullying is quite common in kitchens, and has been encouraged by various TV programs - Ramsay being one of them. Saying sorry afterwards is a frequent aspect of domestic abuse - it's not a sign that people will change their ways. If he treats you like that now, it's likely to get a lot worse later on. I think the best course of action would be for you to find another job if you can, and then end the relationship. Easier said than done at the moment I know, but if you break things off while working with him as your supervisor things could get very difficult at work. If you can't change jobs, then I guess you will just have to rough it out, because it definitely sounds as if you need to end it. Good luck. Sky

It seems that he's more keen on you then you are on him and its understandable that the job is putting stress on your relationship. Because that kind of enviroment is stressful normally let alone if your in a relationship. I dont know how long you have been together but if your feelings are fading and your not happy then you need to end it. And the best way is to tell him how you feel and it is important for to listen to how he feels but don't be guilt tripped or scared into staying with him because if your not happy then you are doing the right thing by leaving him. Hope this helps.