Relationships problems

This has bean a problem for quit some time my fiancé of 6 years has just told me she had cheted on me for a year. And now I have to get mental help from doctor’s I am trying to work it out but I cant trust her and when she wants sex I just cant do it and then she makes me fell as if I have done something wrong or inadequate help me please what am I going to do I cant take it any more

This is totally understandable for you to not want sex with her any more, and I'm sure that most women would act in exactly the same way. How can you have done something wrong? It sounds like she is trying to put the blame on you for her own mistakes, but your argument for this is that if you were doing something wrong, then at least she could have had the courtesy to tell you before starting to see another person. At the end of the day, you need to decide whether you still want to be with her... if you are serious about continuing the relationship and marriage, then you have to know for yourself that you can put this pretty serious incident behind you, and that you will not bring it up again in future disputes. If you can't put it behind you, then if it were me, then I would find someone else. Who is to say that she won't do this to you again in the future? - if this happened then you are back at this point in your life again, but potentially with more to lose - kids / finance etc.

I do want to levee her but if I do that I will have no where to live my dad has sold his house and the council say they cant help me so all I could think of is work every day of the month as I am a security guard and then I will only be hear to sleep and wash my uniform. The thing is she sad to me she only done it because we had fell out but as far as I am concerned she should have talked it thro and resolved any problems she may have had with me. the best bit is she wants a baby with me and I sad not a chance I cant trust you and then she thro a glass at me so as you as you can see I am FUCKED I relly need help with this problem if you can think of any thing right back or call me on 07931959659 I am relly reaching out to any body who can help or advise me.

You are doing the right thing, telling her that there is no chance of having a child with her. How can she fail to understand that you feel cheated? Even if you feel confused over the whole situation, then your heart will tell you waht to do - advice from other people is only going to back up what your instinct is telling you to do - never go along with other people's advice without believing in it yourself otherwise you are not you.