Husband lies about emotional affair

My husband has been secretly talking to his exgirlfriend from his teenage years. They were 16 and 19, now they are 46 and 49!!!!! After confronting him with a list of calls on our telephone bill (which by the way, I never check. I simply pay the bill. Saw the numbers when I thought my teenager was running up our data plan), he told me that yes they talk, but it is not sexual.....REALLY! She lives in Detroit, hundreds of miles from us. However, I told him years ago that the friendship made me uncomfortable. I have found out that they are talking at least 6 to 10 times a day, totaling anywhere from 2 to 5 hours. They have even been texting late into the morning hours. She leaves messages with sexual undertones, such as.... your wish is my command. She calls him every morning on his work phone. He says that although he is aware of the sexual tension between them and them flirting from time to time, they are simply friends. Please give me your honest and constructive feedback.

I believe you should take your husbands phone and block her number that way they can never get in touch. Or you will just have to simply explain to him, being friends is one thing that your fine with but flirting is another. It's either her or me. Set down the law. He needs to realize he has a life now, he can't move all the way back to his teenage years. Life is different then it was before. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself!