Please help me decide

So here's my dilemma, I have been dating the same guy for three years. We want to have a future together, and we're perfectly happy. I get bored easily though so I'm always looking to do something but he isn't as much as a social butterfly and just likes hanging out. My family hates him, but then again they barely speak to me. my mom hates him because he did cheat on me, but that was over two years ago and he's more than made up for it, and has never done it again. I completely trust him, and want to have a future with him. he's exactly my type, super hot, and has a really good job. We have a really good relationship, and are supposed to move out in may. The second part of my dilemma is that I have a crush in this bartender I work with, but only because he is so sweet, and nice. I want to have a life outside of my boyfriend and it seems like all we do is hang out with each other. so I could either be with a guy that's perfect for me, or have a fun, crazy life without being in a relationship. I don't really know what I want right know and I kind of have to make a decision. If you were me would you chose a predetermined future, or an uncertain one?

If i were you i would pick the predetermined future. I would rathar have things going good than to not know where i could be going in life. It sounds like you already have a great guy that's there for you, do you really want to throw all that away on some bartender? I sure wouldn't.