My own stupidity

I got to know a guy from work. I really like him. We have not been going out on a real date. We always hang out together with some friends from the office and he will always send me back home. There was only one time where we actually spent some time alone and that was playing pool. His reason of not wanting to take me on a real date is because we are working together. I did a big mistake one night. I had a bit too much to drink one night and we ended up making out inside his car. The next day i felt so bad, i could not even look at him though he acted like nothing happen. My problem is, i really like him and i really hope that we could try to go to the next level like going for a real date and maybe later on have an exclusive relationship. However, after what had happened he probably think that i am just like any other easy girls and which man would want to be with a girl who is so easy. Is there any ways that i can redeem myself. Any ways that can make him think i am someone worth to be with, not just someone for him to have fun with. Help me please!

You shud just tell him what you are feeling, and make a joke about how you gave in so easily, and that you've fancied him for quite some time. If he is worried about everyone finding out at work, and thinks it might get in the way of "business", then make sure that you only talk about this kind of thing when you aren't surrounded by other work colleagues, because he might just blank you, and be embarrased or even pissed off that you've brought the subject up. Maybe he actually fancies you quite a bit as well, and he is finding it tough to have to work with you, but at the same time having to try and act as though there is no attraction... must be difficult in this situation. Maybe the answer is that you do go out on official dates with each other, but promise to keep things really low profile when it comes to work. Tom

If you get with this guy, is he going to pay your bills for you? Is he going to look after you when you are sick? No. Your wages do that. Your job is valuable to you - he isn't. Do yourself a big favour honey, don't mix business with pleasure. If you like him, change your job. If you value your job - and yourself - then leave well alone. Trust me, I know. I've made the exact same mistake and know where it goes - and you don't want to go there now, do you.