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My gf (29) asked for space and is consistently bitter, angry and downright mean to me but wants me to stay with her awhile I look for a place to live

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My gf (29) and I (29) have been dating long distance for 19 months, together for almost two years. Its been very very very hard. Last month after she visited for a week and she asked for some space bc she thought we grew apart, which I gave her, and is starting to hate me for leaving her so long. However, I'm moving back in less than a month (she has known this for 5 months). Thinking she would be excited about the move back, she is very bitter, angry and downright mean and still wants some space. I’m assuming this relationship is over. However, she said she would pick me up from the airport and said I could stay with her until I find a place to live (she knows my brother lives in the same town). There seems to be alot of mix signals from her. I would like to keep this relationship alive. What should I do? Stay with her? How do I give her space if she said I could stay with her?

My gf (29) asked for space and is consistently bitter, angry and downright mean to me but wants me to stay with her awhile I look for a place to live

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I am also in a long distance relationship, we have been for about 5 years... so I know how hard it is. Myself being the woman I too will admit to having done similar things as what you mention here and we came out of it. If you really love this woman and you want to stay together then you need to do something to make her see how much you love her. Agree to stay with her and give her some space by going out in the day. Go out and write her a letter with how you feel and leave it for her on her bed or somewhere she will find it later when she is alone. Buy her some small but thoughtful gifts, nothing lavish but something that will show you care. Treat this again as a new relationship, feel her out and get used to the person she has become in the time away from you. get to know her again and if you still love her and she loves you everything will be OK. If you start feeling something isn't right or she is pushing you away after you do your best, maybe it is time to move on.

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