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My boyfriend of two years has moved out and left again

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My boyfriend of two years moved out again for the fifth time. He usually calls or comes back by now but not this time. His Family is being very nasty towards me and he didnt just move out he moved 3 hours away. When he left he said he was going to work with his father and get his life straight but would come home on the weekends but he didnt. We have had alot of issues i am independent and manage a bar which he does not like and it has been a big issue in our relationship. I lost my son 6 months into our relationship and have been very stressed and depressed since he was hit by a drunk driver. So he has been the one holding everything down and he has had to deal with my days of depression and many days of distance. But i have paid for everything he hasnt worked in two years and he feels that because he keeps the house clean and helps at the bar that its all he should do. but now he got a job and ignores me. I am five years older then him and he is very jealous and everytime he leaves i always hunt him down and beg him to come back and he usually does after i make a fool out of myself and except blaime for everything when he is usually the one who should be saying sorry. I dont know what to do i love him dearly and i know i should have been more caring and the one who should have been giving him alot of attention. He is a 25 year old libra man and always runs to his whole family to put me down when were fighting but never takes the blaime for his own actions. Will he come back? He did cheat on me early on in our relationship but swears he never did after that.

My boyfriend of two years has moved out and left again

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Had to tell if he will come back you will just have to give it time. If I was you though I wouldn't be with him any longer he should be able to handle your depression. You can't do anything for that. He should be there to support you not make a fight and leave you all the time.

My boyfriend of two years has moved out and left again

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Hi, I am sorry about the horrible situation you are in. I can imagine it being very difficult for you but after reading what you wrote I have only one question. Why do you want him back?

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