Unwanted

Although im not very (18) I was with my girlfriend for 4 years. When you're that young it seems like we grew up together, and she was more than a girlfriend but like my family already. We went camping at the end of august and it was the best time of our lives. Soon after she starts going out with her friends and claims to have changed and fallen out of love with me. She cheated on me and then dumped me after being sincerely sorry and making loads of promises after she had cheated. This was something that I has always known she would never ever do and although I forgave her I was incredibly hurt. She dumped me two days after and now is going out after 1 week with the same boy, seemingly without caring for my feelings. I text her too much following the breakup and now i believe she is taking her anger out on me by going with someone else. What do i do? I know if I leave her alone she will realise what she has done and what she has lost. Everyone seems to think that but I hate the thought of them being together, She has treated me so badly but I still love her so much and letting go is definately not an option.

Im sorry You've been hurt, Sounds like you've just had your heart broken for the first time and i know it hurts like hell, You never really get over your first love like you said its more than just a realtionship you grow with them, learn from one another and become friends too its hard to get that again with someone who's not the first love of your life but if she doesnt love you back anymore you have to let her move on and experiement, make mistakes and who knows in time she might realise and come back to you but for now dont think like that..assume you need to get on with your life, think about yourself go have some fun etc, Once she sees you dont need/want her shes either be gutted your okay without her or jealous shes not apart of your life anymore either way you'll be happier once you think about you and your happiness and not her and whoever shes with now ..xxx

Thanks for the advice. The boy she was with has not moved on to someone else which has annoyed her, although she is pretending that i dont exist, and not talking or even looking at me. I dont know why she is doing that, its like she has never met me. I have to see her every day at sixth form which is so hard. I dont understand how you can fall out of love after being that close really, she promised me very day she would always love me and I dont understand how she let it fall apart, and she said she doesn't know either. Its so frustrating.

Hey there you never lose that magical feeling with your first love but I promise you this if you start doing other things and making your time count with stuff other than stuff you use to do with your first love before you know it there'll be another lucky young lady you'll have fallen for . You may not feel that way now but it will happen after all you got with the first one and there'll be plenty more . You shouldn't take someone back who's cheated on you as they lose their self respect for you and take advantage of your good nature I know it's hard but you got to have faith so pick that broken hear up off the floor and be strong and go live the rest of your life happy times are on their way !Good luck .