He always lies to me

Me and my husband have been together for 9 years and been married for going on 2. Lately i have noticed almost everything he tells me has some form of a lie in it. I ask him if used my debit card and he denied it, then I found the reciept in our house and he still denied it. I feel like he doesnt want to get me mad at him for the way he is but it makes me even madder that he lies and i find out the truth later after some things have even got worse that if he would have told me the truth from the beginning. And i dont know if it drug related but he has been staying upo really late and hanging out in our kitchen with no fan on.. Its almost 80 at night over in coloraod now so its a little odd to med. I dont know what else to do every time i try talking with him he gets angry, walks away and stops talking about anything all together. PLease any advice will help

This is a tough one, I've learned that in situations like this it's best not to confront him right away..and especially if your mad. You always regret things when you talk out of anger. Try not mentioning anything anymore...as hard as that may be, I know...but when I get mad at my bf he shuts off too, it's when I give him space and don't pick fights even though I'm not in the wrong that he loosens up a bit...and your chances of getting an honest answer increase when he doesn't always feel like you're attacking him. The best thing to do if you love him is to give it time...and you should probably take him off the debit card or hide it if thats a problem as well and make him ask you for it if he needs it..

I'm in a similar situation. How long has the lying been going on and do you think he'll ever stop? If the lying continues any trust in him that you've got left will disappear. Without trust, there is no relationship. I agree that he probably doesn't want to upset you, so he resorts to lying. He probably has some issue that he thinks he can solve without you knowing, and just lies about it because he feels it's easier that way. So how do you stop him from doing it....? My boyfriend also lies about everything, eventually admits to it once I catch him. This always leads to a promise that he'll never do it again, but inevitably does. I have no clue what to do because this has been going on for a long time. If your boyfriend's lying is a recent issue, try and see if there is underlying bigger issue that he's trying to keep from you and keeps creating more and more lies to cover it up. This isn't a deal breaker for you relationship if he stops....

I have noticed him changing due to new friends he is with. I looked into his phone last night and found out he is talking and hanging out with someone I though was out of his life, and a really bad druggie to boot. I am trying my hardest not to cry almost every day because i can feel him falling out of love with me. He has kinda opened up with me about what he is doing but some of it i can tell is a lie. When i was going thru his phone he was telling one of his friends i'm a bitch for feeling weird he was leaving the house at 3 in the morning. I still don't know if it is drug (meth) related, he does smoke weed but it has never made him act this way. I am to the verge of just sitting him down and asking him but i know he will leave to one of his friends house, and not talk about it. I still don't know what to do