Need help..

I am a 25 year old married woman. I was living with my in-laws and husband. He is their only son and he is so care ful about them. I am having a possesive character and it affacts me. I was trying hard to get rid of this behaviour , b,coz its disturbing me a lot. I have told my husband about this and he knows me. But my mother- in -law is a special character. I am a bit afraid of her. she talks rude to me st times, and some other times she is fine and good to me. I have overheard her talking angryly about me to my husband. some of these insidents have got into my mind so hard that i cant get rid of them. Now i have started hating my- in laws. So I cant stand my husband talking to them so close. What i felt is that, knowing her rude behaviours at times to me, still my husband talking so caring and loving to them makes me sad. Felt like he cares them more and he dont care how they treat me. I want to get rid of this feeling, bcoz my husband is a good and kind man. He loves me a lot. Now we are living in an apartment separate,,but stil i cant get rid of my hatred towards my in-laws..He is mine , i am possesive and it adds to it. Want to be a normal women, but how??

Maybe consider seeing a psychologist? That is, if you really believe that is that much of an issue. Honestly, you're husband is still his parents child. They should be able to have him too. Not just you. You have an apartment; why doesn't he move in with you? I don't know, just an idea