Living relation

Myself having living relation with a guy & he is not ready for the marriage becoz of his mom,she is against us becoz i am having a son. Since 8 months we are having living relation but every time this keeps me upset thinking of my son , society , how long like this ( living relation ) which i feel its wrong, but we both love each other, we too not able to forget each other. i cant think life without him, he is doing everything for me, except i am not getting proper respect in this society.which i need that, its my big wish, everytime when ever i am upset about this i will be telling him that we will hav brake up still he waits for me again he calls me & again i will be back to him . pls help me from this confusion. I hate such life

First off, respect is not given, it is earned. I don't know what type of society you live in, but you want respect, you must earn it in a respectable manner. As for getting married, if you both believe that you both are ready, then the mother can't stop you. If you both aren't ready, don't force the issue. If you both honestly think you can last, then stay together. Don't let social issues within society get in the way of y'all's relationship. Y'all should be stronger than that.

His mom is having some mental problem , so it is sure that she may end her life as she said, so we are afraid to marry, thats y we are forced to live like this , Hiding ourself from society keeping unvalue relation( living relation ) But as lady i know this type of relation society calls very bad name, which hurts a lot, like a husband he is there for me still i cant show him no where, in fuction or whereever i hav to go like a widow, & it is very painful.