Should I put my needs outside for 6 years

Hi, My name is Nickel, and my parents got divorced a couple years ago. So I have to live with my mom, she's strict,focused and loving. Since I moved, all the kids are ghetto, they talk B.S like there actual adults.I don't have a lot of friends because I refuse to change for anyone of them wether, it's cursing, or being ghetto, NEVER WILL I EVER! And besides, here it's like I have no SOCAIL LIFE! And I don't like my mothers ways, like we barely even talk to each other and she hits me when I get angry her when I scream at her to leave. Which apparently in a parents point of you may be good, but I don't think so, but every summer I go to my dads house He's serious, nice,sweet,caring,funny but a little mean. He never usually smiles but I can tell he really really loves me. And my friends appreciate me for exactly who I am and I love, that and I would 100% have no problem moving there, if it weren't for my mom, she would be heartbroken if I left, she would be so sad, and I would be sad and I would cry (like I'm doing right know) and if I did move I would only get to see her for ThanksGiving,Christmas,My birthday,Spring Break and that's in and maybe Summer if she comes, she would be so sad, and I can't go through that, we'll I can, but I can't so what should I do Live with my loving dad with all my supportive friends and a social life on the weekends with friends and see my mom maybe 6 times a year,or live with my mom where she loves me but don't have a lot of friends or social life where I don't like my mothers ways and only getting to see my dad 2 or 3 times a year and my friends once just because I don't want my mom to be sad,what should I do? (Try to feel the love and the pain) PS. I really don't want to be here for 6 more years

Can I ask how old you are?? Xx