Blackmailing

HI im a 27 years girl single. had a boyfriend since 13 years.. in between we had a break up. then he got married and due to some reasons (not me) he got divorsed. he has 7 years old baby.i dnt want to continue with him but i met him 1 month ago and had a relation.. .. my sister in law is very dangerous as soon as my brother got married she started fightinf with all of us my father, sister, me.. now both of them are not living with us.. from 2 months she told 1 man to follow me and note down whom i meet. he called me one day and said that ur sister in law told me to do that and now she is not giving me my money.. so u give me the 20,000 and this matter will be closed and i will never tell her ur relations.. .. i gave him money... now im in tension that this guy will blackmail me throughout my life.. i cant telll this at home.. what should i do??? afterwords i he call me for money should i complaint to the police? plz help its urgency. than you.

Seems like it would be easier and healthier for you to come clean and move on. Everyone has a crazy life and they should be honest so people can help them be healthy. I think you should take a step back and figure our what you want and what your actions are doing to people around you