Sexuality

Hello I'm feeling very confused at the moment. I've been in a fulfilling relationship for a year, and it's good in all departments. However, recently my bf shocked me by telling me he has a fantasy and would like to have sex with a shemale but is too shy and asked if I could go with him. I can't believe he asked me this. Also he says he's not gay but I'm so confused and disillusioned. Please help. Thank you

Dear lulu700, Stop and think for a second more than you've already thought. You know somethings wrong with this picture or you wouldn't be questioning it. Nothing is worth putting yourself through this much stress. Hate to break it to you but you know fantasy with a shemale has more than gay written all over it. Trust your intuition and keep yourself sane. Best wishes, Sanity

Thank you Sanity. I appreciate your feedback. I guess I was hoping it was just a one off fantasy. But there is also the issue that he asked me to go with him which was very disrespectful.