Do I move on? Helpppp!!

I was with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. At the beginning everything was great! Then slowly but surely he stopped putting the effort in. We stopped doing things together, going out places ect after a while all we ever seemed to do was argue, about everything and everything. We split up around 2 months ago. Since splitting up I've realised that all the arguing was down to me, I caused it all. I've tried talking to him since, explaining how I feel and tryed to put things right. Hes told me that he just doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore. He said he wanted to be with me forever but could just see that it wasn't going to happen. I think this man was my soul mate, I love him more than anything but do I keep on trying or do I just give up? Will he come back to me? Will he realise what he had lost? Helpppp!

Minn, im sorry to say this but I think it's over with you and lover buy. If you went back and said you made a mistake and he replied with a "I don't want a relationship right now" thats simply what he means. Guys are super simple like that he just doesn't want a relationship. If yall were together for 2.5 years yall have so much history that you should take a break you owe it to eachother. When the time comes you should ask him out to coffee and explain what you think happened in the relationship and why it didnt work. If he says its not a good idea that means he moved on and so do you. I say wait about 3 months before asking him to coffee. Hope everything works out!:)