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My fiance has 2 daughters from a previous marriage. We have them just shy than 50% of the time. When we do have them we provide for them 95%. What we don't provide is health insurance as she covers that. We do provide all clothing, sport activies, club costs, etc. They live 5 min down the road. The clothing and shoes we provide sometimes goes to their mothers house. The clubs they join are enjoyed by both households. We do not ask for monies to be repaid. Child support is nearly $2000 a month. This was created 5 years ago. Now... We have a son and she makes double what he makes. Is it justifiable to seek a reduction in child support without sounding like a selfish person? I don't know how to approach this with my husband. But, I do feel that some of that money should now go to our son. Even stating this sounds wrong... Is it???? So, I asked him about shared custody. I thought this would benefit the girls in a number of ways. Plus, it would better out chances of her taking them if she decided to move out of state. He got so upset with me. He is so terrified that she would no longer speak to him...... I'm confused and am struggling to see his point of view.

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Do you actually need to pay less child support? Is your son deprived financially? If your son has everything he needs financially, then do no pursue a change in child support. Your son has something that money cannot buy: he gets to live with both of his parents full-time.

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