Should I stay and give him a chance

i have been friends with the man i am living with for 4 1/2 years we have been living togeter for about 15 monthes i knew when he moved in he lied about everything and had an EXTREMELY wiid lifestyle but i had helped settle down and change alot and i gave it a shot 5 montes after he moved ini caught himsextimg my best friend and another women and there was pics we split for alil while and decided to work it out and move back in the problems is he cant quit lying he lies to everyone all the time and he thimks sexting is ok and loves porn i truely love him and i know he loves i have no doubt but i just dont knw if he can change it makes me crazy i find myself constantly checking up on him we have alot of money problems right now so splitting up isnt an option he has had arough life and has changed so much i just dont know how long to hang on

Why would you want to hang on to that? I know you may not see it now because love blinds you from seeing the real thing, but it seems like he is the one who has something to lose. He can't respect or be loyal to someone who obviously loves him. You keep giving him chance after chance and it lets him know that he can continue to do the same thing and you will take him back. That is what you are showing him. Honestly, you are better than what you think you are. Don't sit around accepting behavior that you don't agree with. You need to be different this time and show him that you aren't willing to deal with the same things you have put up with and that he has been lucky to have you. I know people make mistakes and you are to forgive them and it is good to give a second chance, but when you get to the 5th chance that is ridiculous. He has not learned his lesson and I don't think that he will change. Is this something that you are willing to put up with for the rest of your life? You have to ask yourself that. I know these situations are stressful and they can be emotionally draining. You have to do something for you.