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So it all started when someone messages me on Facebook saying that this guy (let's just call him B) liked me but I didn't believe the person that told me so I just ignored it thinking no one would like me. But at that time I didn't like anyone so I kinda kept my eye on him. Then later B told me he saw me at the park and all I said was oh being the awkward turtle that I am and just wondered why he didn't come up to me and say hi. After that he didn't try talking to me for awhile. For about a month nothing happened except for him occasionally looking at me before school or lunch. We had two classes together so I got to see him everyday. I had to leave a lot for my games during the periods we had together for my soccer games and he would always tell me good luck when I was leaving. One day we had an assembly for who knows what and it was during the period I had with him. We ended up sitting next to each other somehow but I thought it was really weird because he wasn't sitting next to any of his friends. During the assembly we had to move over only one seat to let someone sit down and he moved over like five because he didn't know how many seats were needed. Once he realized that we only had to move over one he came back and sat next to me saying oh I really want to sit here and he kept "accidentally" touching my arm that was on the arm rest. After that I noticed B started talking to most of my friends only when I was with them but he would never say a word to me. One day during finals I brought a bag of Oreos to school just because I could and we both had a game that day too. One of my friends had to go into the parking lot to get something from her mom and B was there waiting for his bus to go to his game. My friend wanted some of my Oreos so while we were going to the parking lot I kept pulling the Oreos out of my bag. B happened to notice us he acted like he thought the Oreos belonged to my friend but I knew very well that he saw me with them. B asked her if he could have some of "her" Oreos. She explained they were mine and acted surprised and asked if he could have some. I told him he could have as many as he wanted but to leave some for me. He teased me and told me he was gonna take the whole bag. We walked off and he told us good luck with our game and he didn't talk to me for awhile after that. Then I started seeing him a lot of places i went. I went to the park with my friend and he was there. The next day at school my friends got him to sign my yearbook without me knowing and they said he got really embarrassed and kept blushing. In it he wrote that I was really good at the sports I played but he never saw me play. The same day he signed my yearbook I was swimming with one of my friends and they were friends with B's brother so B's brother went swimming with us a lot of the time. One day B came over to pick him up and he was kind of surprised that I was swimming with his brother. He stared at me so much that my sister noticed she could tell I liked him and she kept making fun of me for it. The next day I walked into school the same time he walked out of a classroom we immediately noticed each other. My friend was waiting for me by my locker and she yelled out my name happy to see me. B was walking next to me because his locker was by mine and he yelled out my name too and said hi and gave me a hug I was so surprised. I noticed that his friends were acting weird too. They all of a sudden knew who I was and smiled every time they saw me and would start talking to me. We were walking one day and i was walking behind him the whole time and he would look back to me like every 5 min but wouldnt say a word later we had free play and we were both playing volleyball but on seperate courts with our friends. Our ball kept going on his court and everytime i would try to get it he would run over and give the ball to me i was expecting him to toss it to me but he would walk it up to me every time and say here you go. Towards the end of the period he was messing around with his friends saying that they are cheaters and that he was going to go play volleyball with my friends and he walked over and stood right next to me. On the last day of school it was my birthday and a bunch of my friends made me posters. B was near by when my friends gave them to me so he knew it was my birthday. He didnt say happy birthday to me until the day was almost over in the middle of running 4 miles for the pe final it made me think that he had to be thinking about he the whole he was running. After school i was walking on the opposite side of the street to him and he saw me but kept on walking an didnt say anything. Later that night I went to my friends party and B's brother was there . Later that night I ended up meeting B's mom which was really awkward. She said that B mentioned that I invited him to a pool party but she never really said if they were going or not. The pool party was the next day and I was so excited because I really want him there. I waited the whole night for him to come but he never did. Someone mentioned that he might have had a baseball game but I was really bummed. I have no idea if this guy likes me or not. What do you think?

Is this a game?

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He likes you. he's just shy. It can be hard for anyone because just like you he has this fear within him that no one could like him. Next time you see him say "If you like me then ask me out or stop this." He doesn't feel like he's playing games with you he's just trying to find out if you like him as well and when he looks at you you probably get a kind of confused look on your face. this look can also come off as grossed out... so another thing you could say is "if you like me, I like you too." basically this is the only way to find out is just to put yourself out there. If it is some kind of game then he's a crewel little man and doesn't deserve you anyway but it does sound like a genuine crush.

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