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Should I stay or should I go...

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I've been dating my boyfriend, who is also in another country for over a year now and we recently got engaged in April. When we first met, I wasn't looking for love but was happy that it found me. We hit a lot of bumpy roads from the start and managed to realize that we loved each other too much to not make things work. He is not a good communicator, unlike myself and we clash alot there as well. After the engagement, things were great we were really happy and decided to not stress out about the planning of the wedding. Recently, we had a disagreement about him being out late and he didn't like that I was telling him what to do. Which got me heated because we're in an committed relationship, so why can't I? Well, he decided to end the relationship and to go as far as to tell me he didn't love me anymore, we were at a cross roads...he was getting back with an ex girlfriend. Hurt to no end, I was crushed, my heart broken and just crushed. I finally get a call from him saying he was sorry for hurting me like that, went too far and shouldn't have handled things in that way. He doesn't want to break-up. I was clear that things aren't as they were because I don't trust he won't hurt me again like that...that it will need to be a day by day thing. As this was only on Friday, I've noticed that he isn't doing anything to help heal the wounds he caused, I tell him I need to hear I love you and get reassurance, his response is "why are you forcing me to say it" or "that is something we'll have to work on". I'm starting to wonder if I am making a mistake allowing this second chance, because he acting like everything is alright and I'm still hurting inside. I don't know what to do, should I move on and let this go? I don't know what is going on with him. It shouldn't be hard to say I love you to a person if you really mean it, right?

Should I stay or should I go...

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I honestly feel like he isn't the right guy. He has no right to tell u I don't love you and I'm getting back with my ex. An expect to get you back. You will find someone that will be your Romeo you Noah your perfect match that will do anything an everything hope it helps but dont forget your worth everything to that person

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