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Relationship trouble. Please help

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I’ve been in a relationship for 2 months. He’s 26 and I’m 22. He texts me every few minutes unless we are together or he is sleeping. If I do not respond right away, he will blow up my phone. If it’s longer than 15 minutes, he will start questioning what I am doing. He has gotten angry with me for going out to a restaurant by myself while he is not around to accompany me. He tells me if I go anywhere that I need to be home by 10:30pm. While I am out, he will contact me nonstop throughout the night. He needs to know ever detail about everything. What I’m doing, who I’m with, how many drinks I had, when I’m going home, if I’m going anywhere next, if anybody talked to me, what I’m eating, etc. This applies to all parts of my life though. He likes to pry to the point of even getting me to tell him how much money I have in the bank and some personal stories I wouldve rather kept to myself since they’re sensitive topics. If I don’t give him the answer he is looking for he will get mad. He starts arguments with me frequently simply because he doesn’t like an answer I’ve given him or he doesn’t like that I’m doing anything without him. Or because out of the 30+ times he says “i love you” every day, i might not say it nack maybe twice (accidentally). I feel trapped. I have no friends because he wouldn’t approve of any of them. The one friend (who I was given 21 questions over:how do you know her, where’s she from, how old, any kids, what nationality, etc) I do have he got mad about simply because we went out for a low key girls night to catch up. Anyway I just really need to know what to do. Any advice or opinions are GREATLY appreciated. Thank you.

Relationship trouble. Please help

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Sounds like my relationship. Just ask yourself if its worth it. Will he give you a good future be a good husband and father. Are u the same with him maybe u should try and see how he likes it just know if he appreciates you? Or would do anything for you

Relationship trouble. Please help

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This does not sound good or very healthy. You are being controlled and there is no reason to be joined at the hip with this guy. It is early days at only two months and he should not be asking personal questions about your bank balance. This controlling behaviour will only get worse as time goes on and it does not sound as if you can discuss his behaviour with him, this is what controlling men do they isolate you from your friends. Give yourself some space from him and have the discussion about which nights you see each other and which nights you both go out separately with your friends. If this does not work I am afraid you need to walk away as it will only head towards disaster.

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