Brother-in-law living with us

My brother in law moved in with us in Feb. after his at the time girlfriend kicked him out because he got his 4th dwi. My husband asked permission and I was in no win situation to say yes. So, here we are now. We are at each others throats, my b.law and me, and then my husband and me because of the way I treat him. I am just sick of him being here. He is on house arrest (What a joke that program is too!!!!) He gets to leave for work and he can pick a time of 8-8; really. Then he also gets so many hours on weekends to do what he needs. After our last ourbreak because he didnt ask if he could have some of the dinner I had just made(yes, made enough for him; but so sick of him just taking). I finally couldn't keep it in. Anyway longer story short. I did tell him he must look for a place so that when bracelet off he is off from here. I want my space back in our house, and my time; oh and the kids; they don't like when he tries to parent them. Which we told him he could not do!!!!!!!!!!! only does when I am home, not the husband. So stressed, am I wrong to feel this way towards him???

I feel your pain about him being in your home. You have to look at it 2 ways. . First why is he on house arrest did he do something where he should not even be in your home around your kids and what if it was your brother or sister that lived with you and needed help. Also he does need to be saving up money and looking fir another place. I do not how having someoe else in the house cause problems between people.