Reality check within love

I have been in a relationship for about 3 years now and I have a great man an he has a great woman but we are really goin threw..its been this young lady he was just screwing around with before he meet me but as far ask I knew they stop dealing once we got together but all of a sudden now she say she having a child by him..he came to me as a man n told me he cheating and it might could b his child cause he broke the condom so they could stop because it hunted him to cheat on me..alot of things are raging in my mind.but I love this guy to death n want to work it out but thing haven't been the same since..just want to here someone else point of vibe...Iam I crazy n stupid for wanting to work it out????

If the child is his then don't go through with him. He is not worth it. He will also have too much on his plate and might consider getting together with the mother. If it isn't his and you really do love him. Them give him a second chance.

I myself wouldn't stay with a man who cheats. This woman was "supposed" to be in his past and who knows how long they have been together, behind your back having sex before she got pregnant? I do believe once a cheater, always a cheater. I couldn't be in a relationship where I'd always have to wonder where he is if he's late, says he's out with friends, missing work, etc... I'm afraid you would be setting yourself up for future heartache. If you 2 had a strong relationship...why did he cheat? He doesn't value it.