Do I have the 7 year itch?

My husband and have been married 9 years and together for 11. I really do love my husband but i am worried that things are not like they use to be? We don't have sex regularly, in fact i seem to have lost my desire for it? He tries really hard, he is a great husband, great provider, hard worker and has never cheated or never contemplated leaving me as he is happy to be married to me. BUT, i think that i am getting bored doing the same things in life, we are in such a routine that i feel smothered? Is this the itch?

Hi : you really need to speak to him and let him know how you feel and try news things together.. If you want to speak to me here's my e-mail [e-mail address removed].

I don't know if that's the itch. I've been married 5 years, we have a little girl and a boy on the way. I want to leave the relationship because my wife lacks any interest in being intimate at all, not just sex but general intimacy. She seems to obsess about the cleaning and focuses on giving me shot for everything I do no matter how hard I try. You're probably just bored which can be sorted out of you discuss it with him and try to work on keeping life interesting and varied. This will happen with anyone you spend a lot of time with especially when life gets repetitive as shown by my wife and I. Wait till you have kids, that's a whole new level again (assuming you don't have them yet)

DMP:- No we don't have kids but i want them. Ah this is complicated coz I don't wan't to hurt him either...but i don't want a boring routined life either! It wasn't always like this, but it didn't last long either. Why is the idea of talking to him so hard???