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I love her. What should I do?

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Im 18 years old and shes 17 years old. We met 9 months ago and ever since we first met we were having a good time. After a few months i admitted that i liked her and she felt the same way for me and after a while we already love each other. But she told me that she wasnt ready for a commitment and she is traumatized because of her past relationships because all of her ex boyfriends cheated on her. For some reason she trusted me enough but still wasnt for a commitment. We sometimes fight but our recent fight made a huge impact in our relationship. I got mad because she got rode the car of one guy that was flirting with her even though i said no and then i said i couldnt trust her anymore and she got very mad at me and she started pointing out that all i was looking at are the bad things in our relationship and never the good things. I admit i easily get angry, jealous but i admitted it to her and i promised to change. But now she is pointing out that im the only one wrong in our relationship in our relationship eventhought she has some faults too. I know some women always wants to be right so i just agreed her and i said im sorry its all my fault. I said i was sorry and she said she has had enough she wanted to take a break from all the drama and she wants to cool off first. This is my first relationship with a girl that went this far so im not sure what i should do. Do i give more effort so that she would forgive or should i just leave her alone for a while? i appreciate and suggestions and comments thanks :)

I love her. What should I do?

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Hi I wish I had all the answers for you...I myself am going through issues right now....First I am going to advise you that if she needs space let it happen...as much as the distance hurts and the waiting seems like forever....this distance might actually make her realize what she has in her hands...but it will also save your heart if she decides to stay away....but stay positive and think about the good you have done for this relationship...you are young and in a relationship nobody will ever be perfect we all have flaws its just being able to realize that we are not the same and being in a relationship takes a lot of molding both ways in a positive manner....when I first met my partner I hated to walk away from a fight I wanted to talk and resolve things immediately where my partner needed space and time and silence ....ughhh that took a lot of getting used to ....hang in there and I hope I helped a little....

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