Friend drama

I have a really close friend that I've known for a long time. She's always been there for me when I had a problem and we told each other everything. But about six months ago, she started ignoring me and being really passive aggressive towards me. So I asked her about it and she completely ignored me. I messaged her dozens of times but she never replied. I tried in person but she ignores me. We're on a team together and she refuses to practice with me. The worst part is I truly don't know why she's upset. We were fine one day and then I didn't see her for weeks. But suddenly she hated me. And she won't tell me why. Any suggestions on what to do? She's one of my best friends and I can't lose her. Thanks so much for any help I can get on this issue.

Hi there! First thing is first, you are a great friend for persisting with her and trying to make her talk to you. That is great. Maybe you should try giving her some time and space for her to cool down, but still try to be the best friend that you are and always have been. If she doesn't show any sign of forgiveness and you still don't know why she's mad,maybe you can realise that she will always hold this grudge and maybe it's time to move on :). Hopefully that is not the case, and maybe it's just a time where she's always angry and need some time alone. In the mean time, make sure her silent treatment and grudges can't be any symptom of depression or eating disorders, because I know that when you have them, you tend to drift away from your friends. Keep doing what you're doing, but give her some space and keep a look out for her. I hope this helps :)

Thanks so much for the ideas. But I think I've given her space. It's been 6 months since we've talked. She's blocked me on just about every way of messaging and ignores me in person. I've been going out of my way to smile at her and just be really nice, but she still hates me. There's something that kind of worries me though. This is getting a little detailed, sorry. But there's no other way to explain it. I looked at her Instagram page the other day, and in her profile it said "It's possible to feel so much hate that you just stop feeling it, like a fish not knowing its in water." It's a quote from G.I. Joe or something. But I find that sort of concerning and don't know what I should do about it. Her father is my instructor for the sport we do together. Should I go to him and ask him to mediate a discussion between the two of us? Because I truly don't think we're getting anywhere with the "silent treatment". Or should I bring up my concerns to her dad? I just don't know how to help her, and if she's having a hard time or is in trouble, I need to make sure she's okay. Regardless of the problems between us. Thanks so much for the advice:)

Hmm. It seems very tricky and I am sorry. I would sat if she wants it to be this way, then so be it. Maybe she doesnt deserve it. But I know you mentioned that she was a truly close friend so I think you shoulher d talk to her dad? Maybe he can help. Just ask how she is and if you can help or make things better. Hope it gies well!!!

Sorry I had a typo! I meant if she wants it to be that way then she doesnt deserve u as a friend. :)