Change in the bedroom

I am an over-analyzer. I must tear a problem down until I get to the root and find what needs fixing. I cannot do that with my current situation. My boyfriend told me that the last couple of times we have had sex he has not "cum" the same way that he normally does. We have been together almost 5 years. He said that is always explosive when he "cums" yet now it is just a simple release. He says he does not know why things have changed, that is not me. How does a woman not equate that to herself? Please help me figure out the problem.

Hi Banana, I can definitely relate to your over-analyzing. I'm currently doing that with my own topic. My thoughts on reading your topic is: "How does a woman not equate that to herself?" I don't know your boyfriend, but if he's always been honest with you then why not believe him when he says it's not you? Has anything happened in your lives that has put extra stress into the mix? If it was me I would say something like "I've taken what you've said to heart and I want to help you get your explosive cums back. What do you think?" It could be a great opportunity for both of you to try new things and learn new ways to please each other, if all else it's fun :) I hope my post helps you and encourages others to share their views.

Thank you for your reply, JINTEY. He says that everything we do leading up to him cumming is great. The actual cumming is the issue. I guess I just have to wait and let him work through whatever he is going through. Wish it did not bother me so.

No problem BANANA, hope everything works out ok for you both. May I ask if your computer can get into my post "should i stay or should I go"? I've tried but it says error page not found. I'm going to email the support team, but I was really hoping for an answer to my problem.

Hi JINTEY, I have tried to get into your post with no success. I think that you should take this guy for how he is toward you. Even if he was that way in the past, people mature, realize that they have done wrong, or find someone the feel is worth doing better with. IF you see signs of someone you do not want to deal with you can make a decision then. Good luck.

Thanks Banana :) Yeah I spoke to the admin and they say it's because of the quotes around it thats causing the problem.