Friendzone

I am A Med school student in India.I actually love a girl who was a very good friend of mine and I eventually fell for her.And She ,before I could say anything broke the fact she liked someone but that person dont like her.She has two failed relationship before.She asked me for suggestion what to do,to which I blutly said I love you.She said she doesnot want to hurt me and want to remain friends as before.I choose not to.I avoided her for four months and she tried to chat with me in Facebook or texts but I hardly gave back a reply.We stooped being good friends as before.I found out soon that she has no boyfriend nor is she trying to see one.Soon after,one of our common friends asked her what happened between us and she answered that She is bit of Relationphobiac due to failed relations and I avoided her and she was upset with me and asked if I was angry over her.She tried helping me out more than once after that in various professional work during this time too.She already has rejected another couple of Seniors too recently.yesterday,in the semi annual meeting of ours,she became drank and I was drunk(though much stable than her) and she started resting her head over my shoulder and clench my hand and tuck it under her arms.I bumped my head into hers and we stayed so for more than 15 minutes.She offfered me her half drank Sprite too.We whispered into each other's ears and I fell this is exactly what I want my girlfriend to be and this is how I love her to be in my life.But the next day when I texted her if she is okay,she replies only yay yay..Its okay.Am so confused.I want to be her boyfriend and support her all the time.But I was hurt once.She was drunk to drop dead when she clung onto me.Will I consider it a sign she is into me and what should I do now??I love her madly and still have the same feelings I had 6 months back.Thanking you.

Hello there, as you know that she was totally drunk that night, i think she doesn't really know much about what happened! I really think that, you should give her a little more time, and try talking about that night to be sure if you are on the right track. Don't assume anything without being told by her what she feels toward your idea of being her bf. Just try taking it slow, and who knows, she might really have something for you. All the best.

Well it turned out she just had other plans or something.she wished me just a courteous Bday on the day I had Bday(@ days after that goof up) and Now I pinged her once in Facebook.She was eager to cut the conversation short.Well I will ask her out with my group of friends to dinner as a part of my Bday treat but am just hoping against hope she will not say a stern NO.I am loosing all hope faster and faster and am just feeling am being used as an emotional Tampoon.I stayed away from her for 4 months and again I feel am being played upon.What do you guys think??Is it a good move to ask her or just leave it and leave her ??