some advice please

hi everyone, I have been seeing the same guy for last seven weeks 2/3 times a week depending on what hes working and me also. He told me from start he doesnt do girlfriends but out of all the times we have met he has texted me apart from two. i just dont know where i stand we have a sexual relationship since meeting and i always stay at his.i just really wanted some advice really

Do you feel like you want more than this casual sexual relationship? Do you like him as more than a casual sex partner? In which case, you might have to stop meeting up, having sex and staying at his place - all which says you are putting yourself out there for someone who doesn't want to be your boyfriend. If you are okay with that because that's all you want, that is fine. But if you want more, you'll have to break off this FWB type thing and look for someone ready to date and be more committed than he is. Hope this helps.

Thanks for ur advice I do feel close when I'm with him but last two occasions I stayed there was no sex which is fine with me we kissed he held me in his arms all nite sometimes I feel as if I get mixed signals

Maybe he appreciates your closeness because he is lonely and would rather have someone around sometimes, but in no way would like to commit. You'll have to ask him why he does some of these things to be sure. Tell him that you wonder if some of the things he does mean he does want something like more of a relationship, and see what he says.

Remember as well that since he is not committed to only you, he could pull a fast one and hook up with someone else - and if you are getting attached, it's really going to hurt you.

Ok thank you for your help I will ask on next meeting